CRYSTALS: Partner Passing

QUESTION: Hi there.

My life partner has passed, very peacefully and the signs are very positive. I'm doing practices and meditation for him as well.

I'm doing pretty well, but I know healing takes time. What would be good support for me to wear, meditate with or have in our home or, specifically, maybe, the bedroom?

I am very close with amber and wear a wrist mala of amber and a small bracelet of amber/jet. I usually wear some turquoise and sort of pick what feels right when i get up in the morning.

thank you for your help ...

ANSWER: Hi, thank you for your email. We always recommend Rainbow Obsidian in times of grief to help absorb these energies and fill you with light and hope. If you are doing meditation work contacting the higher realms, you may also consider Angelite, Celestite, Moldavite and Amethyst. You may also want to consider working with a crystal skull. My sister Lisa Satin has a short video on crystal skulls here: http://www.satincrystals.com/servlet/the-template/crystalhealingvideos/Page#Skulls 

In the bedroom, Rose Quartz is always a very comforting crystal. Of course, these are suggestions that have helped us and others in the past. You are correct in picking that which feels right to you to work with each morning!

If you need any other suggestions, we are just an email away. 

Sincerely, 

Sheila Satin 

www.idigcrystals.com 

info@satincrystals.com 

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CRYSTALS: Arguing Relationships

QUESTION: Hi Sheila! I know I haven't been in touch for a quite a while, but I do check your website nearly everyday and find it very interesting. I really wish you didn't live across the country now since I would love to have you work on me with your crystal healing abilities! I have become very intrigued by crystals ever since I started reading your site.

Today I have a specific question for you: are there certain crystal I could use to bring about a more harmonious and peaceful temperament to my relationship with my husband? We have been fighting a lot lately and it seems to have become a vicious cycle that we can't get out of, no matter how hard we try or how much we love each other. The stress and tension are driving us both crazy! Any advice??

ANSWER: Hello friend, thanks for your email. Always great to hear from you and keep in touch despite the physical distance :)

For your relationship with your husband, I highly recommend you seek the aid of Rose Quartz crystals. A good way to implement this pink crystal into your life would be for you both to have a piece. Whether you want to wear it in jewelry form or keep a piece of tumbled in your pockets, clean, charge and program the Rose Quartz for peace in your relationship.

If your husband is not as keen on using crystals for healing as you are, I would suggest placing matching pieces (maybe Rose Quartz eggs, balls or pyramids) on each of your bedstands. The main point being, make sure there is an equal balance with the energy between you both. Whenever you feel an argument coming on, having the Rose Quartz's loving energy near you will remind you of compromise, forgiveness and letting go...

I will also tell you to focus on yourself. One-sided arguments do not exist. If you can come to terms with your own energies, balance your heart, subside the anger within yourself, there can be no problems in your relationship. Rose Quartz is great to work on yourself as well, but I would additionally use Obsidian (or Rainbow Obsidian) to transmute negativity and help you in "letting go" and overcoming.

If you need more advise, I'm always here to answer them!

Your friend,
Sheila Satin :: Crystal Healer :)

Additionally, i welcome custom orders for jewelry pieces made with your crystals in mind: http://sheilasatin.etsy.com

CRYSTALS: Faithful Spouse

QUESTION: Hi, could you recommend a crystal that would keep a "spouse" from having "wandering eyes" . . . my friend's such a good person . . . your immediate feedback would be greatly appreciated. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

ANSWER: As for keeping a spouse from having "wandering eyes" there is nothing you can do to change another human being's actions. The only thing you can do is change your own. For this purpose, I would recommend that your friend work on her confidence level or whatever is blocking her energies and pushing her spouse away. Have her focus on her own self. She can only attract what energy she herself is putting out. If you need more specific crystal help for this purpose, please tell me a bit more about her personality or what she would like to change about herself.

In general, Rose Quartz is a crystal known for enhancing committed relationships. Relationship crystals should be placed on both sides of the bed to balance the energies between spouses. For example, if you are using 2 Rose Quartz eggs, place one on your side, the other on your spouses's side of the bed.

Sincerely, Sheila Satin : Crystal Healer
http://www.idigcrystals.com/