Hey- Nice chatting with you briefly! Sorry to hear about the difficulties in relationships- I hope there is swift recovery for the guy you are dating, and also for your own emotional health. I've thought about a few things that can help you for your 30th birthday this year.
1. Crystal Healing Session for balance and positive energy
2. Pink Tourmaline Pendant, similar to this one pictured. Tourmaline is very good for the heart, and protective too.
3. 4 Rose Quartz tumbled stones for the 4 corners of your bedroom.
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As I mentioned, you may want to clear your space with sage. Hopefully you will be able to find some before the trip, but if not we also have them available:
Light it and burn it in each corner of the house, cleansing away negativity and putting positive energy with your intention. If you can get away with it, even do it briefly in your work station.
Otherwise, to keep away negativity at the work space, use Obsidian.
To help with staying optimistic during trying times, Peridot and Moonstone are prime.
We have all the above mentioned stones in different forms at www.satincrystals.com , even small ones for $1 (not online) Jewelry is always great because it's easy.
Another thing you can do it write a list of affirmations. I do this, and have a list of about 15 affirmations, divided into categories of Personal/Spirit, Work/Money, and Relationships. I read the list every morning and every night. At least once a day helps a lot. Sometimes I get busy and skip out, but I do the best I can.
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For the guy friend, Selenite is our #1 recommendation in aiding cancer patients.
The first one is a palm stone he can hold, especially useful in the hospital because it wards off negative spirits that reside there.
The second is a tower-like thing that he can place on a stand or desk
The third is a massage wand, which can be used in massage and also as a wand to protect the aura during hospital visits.
Any of the above can be used in the double purpose of 1. Aiding in recovery. 2. Protecting the aura during hospitalization and operations.
Here is a blog that Sheila wrote about colon cancer 2 years ago:
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I'm not sure how you feel about the relationship you are currently in, but if you want to strengthen the bond between the two of you, you can get something that is a pair, and give him one. For example, this pair of mochi balls:
Infuse them with your love energy and give him one and you keep one.
Since you both must be under a lot of emotional stress, you can each carry around a stone in your pocket and any time you feel anxiety, rub the stone. Maybe you already have a stone you'd like to carry around, or some examples of worry stones are here:
Well... those are a few things I can think of now.
Aside from that, remember to breathe deep and be grateful for the positive things.
Last year and this year (the months surrounding my 30th bday) were very monumental for me as well. Here is a great article I've shared with a lot of people that might better allow you to understand some of the changes going on in your life right now:
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Alright I've probably overloaded your brain awhile back.
Glad you'll be able to make it out so I can see you in a couple weeks. Take care!
Lisa Satin
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